Etheric Cord Cutting

The Cord Cutting Ritual:

  • Find a quiet place where you can be alone and not disturbed. Begin by relaxing your body and taking a few deep breaths.
  • Once relaxed, close your eyes and call upon your spirit guides or angels to help guide you through the process.
  • Upon feeling the presence of your guides, recite the following prayer:
    • “Dear Spirit Guides, I call upon you to help me heal, let go, and cut any etheric cords that are no longer serving my higher purpose. I ask that all cords attached to me that are not aligned with love, light and positive attention be released. Help me to release them and surround me with a healing light to protect me from future attachments. Thank You.”
  • You may need to repeat the prayer 2-3 times. You can also close your eyes and visualize the cords being released, as well as the healing light surrounding you.

We are constantly creating cords with many people and even objects, but if you feel drawn back to an unhealthy relationship, or want to break negative patterns or addictions, or feel a strong psychic connection to someone that is draining your energy, a cord cutting ritual may be beneficial.

Especially when it comes to relationships, cutting the cord can help break the energetic attachments created and can help you to move on to receive new opportunities in your life.

Cutting the cord can help you recharge your energy, feel a sense of peace, can help you let go and can bring about new, positive opportunities.

Connection before Correction…

These qualities I wish I had used more consistently is Connection before Correction.

Of course, I didn’t know what this meant as a young mother.

Now we know it is just brain science: children learn (grow, feel safe, thrive) best when they feel connection—or as Alfred Adler and Rudolf Dreikurs taught us, “a sense of belonging and significance”.

Extensive research shows that we cannot influence children in a positive way until we create a connection with them.

It is a brain (and heart) thing.

🌹Sometimes we have to stop dealing with the misbehavior and first heal the relationship.🌹

Connection creates a sense of safety and openness.

Punishment, lecturing, nagging, scolding, blaming or shaming create fight, flight, or freeze.

One of my favorite examples of “connection before correction” is, “ I Love You 😍 and the answer is no.”

This example also illustrates the Positive Discipline concept of kind and Down at the same time.

Before sharing more ways to create a connection with children, I want to point out that it is a mistake to think that giving children whatever they want is effective.

Rescuing, fixing, and over-protecting are not good ways to create a connection.

Effective connections are made when both child and adult feel belonging and significance.

Most of the Positive Discipline parenting tools provide skills for creating a connecon.

Simple Techniques..

  • Spend special time with children. What could create a greater connection for your child than to know you enjoy spending time with him or her.
  • Listen. Really listen. Stop doing whatever you are doing and give your child your full attention
  • Validate your child’s feelings. Don’t we all feel connected when we feel understood?
  • Share your feelings and thoughts when appropriate. Remember that children will listen to you AFTER they feel listened to. Children feel a connection when you respectfully share something about yourself. Respectfully, means no stories about walking miles in the snow.
  • Focus on solutions WITH children after a cooling off period. There is that word “with” again–because it is a golden bridge to connection.
  • Ask curiosity questions to help children explore the consequences of their choices instead of imposing consequences on them. Sincere questions open the heart and the rational brain—equaling connection.
  • Hugs. There are times when all of us need nothing more than a hug.

Once the connection is made, children are then open to respectful correction.

It is important to understand that “Correction” in the Positive Discipline way is very different from conventional correction.

The biggest difference is that conventional correction usually involves punishment (punitive time-out, grounding, and taking away privileges being the most common).

In other words, conventional correction consists of adults doing something TO children. Positive Discipline correction respectfully involves children whenever possible, finding solutions WITH them.

Two great methods for finding solutions are family meeting and joint problem solving.

These are powerful tools that respectfully involve children to learn and use their personal power in contributing ways.

Connection is created as part of the process.

When children feel a connection, they feel belonging and significance. Often that is enough for misbehavior to stop. As you learn about the many Positive Discipline tools, notice that they are all designed to create a connection before respectful correction.

Fear over Love

Choosing Love over Fear means:

1. You choose to stop beating yourself up, accept that you too are human, and show yourself compassion.

2. You choose to accept your struggles as opportunities for growth and change.

3. You choose to see all people through a lens of compassion and yes, even the ones who treat you poorly (they’re going through their own stuff … nothing to do with you!).

4. You choose to forgive yourself and others, so you can let the past go, cut the chords, and finally be able to do what you need to do in the present to thrive.

5. You choose to start appreciating your body (instead of bashing it), and that very respect allows you to do what’s right for you and your body daily.

6. You choose to not let others determine your worth.

7. You choose to savor your moments and be grateful for all that you have (even if you want more). Note: it is this very mindset that will get you more.

8. You choose to let the beliefs, thoughts, and ideas that are no longer serving you go.

9. You choose to set loving boundaries, so you can feel important too (and not like a doormat).

10. You choose to honor the present moment, by showing up the best you can for where you are in that moment.

11. You choose to speak your truth and ask for what you need, so you can live freely, fully, and honestly.

12. You choose to see your Possibilities.

13. You choose to remember that feelings are just feelings and that they too will pass.

14. You choose to show your loved ones love.

15. You choose to not let what you labeled yourself as prevent you from becoming who you want to grow into.

Inner Knowing

It is reassuring to think that we each have within us a voice that lets us know almost everything that we need to know

a voice that can help us to make the right choices and decisions, say precisely what needs to be said, and avoid travelling down the wrong paths or getting involved in the wrong things.

“If only we would listen to it!”

For it is one of the greatest gifts that we have as human beings: there are limits to our reasoning, and that is where our instinct comes into play.

Jack London spoke of it in his story, “To Build a Fire.” Here, a man uses reason to try to survive temperatures of 75 degrees below zero, but eventually dies.

However, his dog, whose instinct tells him he should not be out there, survives. 

Pay attention to “the voice within” you; it is speaking, but you must listen.

When you pray, listen for the responses to your prayers.

When you talk, listen what is said in return.

It will require practice and patience, yet the result of your diligence will be a much greater understanding of your purpose and meaning in life. 

Day 15~ The sensation of Oneness from my whatsap session

Our senses are indeed our doors and windows, the key to the unlocking of meaning and the wellspring of creativity.

Though many know only 5 senses but actually there are 9…

I AM unlocking the meaning of Life, living my connection to the whole through the wondrous sensations that surround me.

Tap into the Intuitive Powers Now 🌺

www.insightsandgrowth.com

Laila Ahmed

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Divine Hope ~ Chapter from my Book ~ Intuitive Guidance 😘

DIVINE HOPE

Intuitive power is the divine hope given to us it is like a beacon of light in all our lives

Intuition or an inner guiding voice helps to keep the light of hope burning inside all of us throughout our lives

Hope plays an enormous part in our lives . Hope creates infinite possibilities in our lives for growth and expansion

To begin with I have a strong hope that by reading this book you should be able to develop and tap into your intuitive powers the way I have developed and tapped into mine

Intuition is God’s gift. It is his blessing to humanity

Hope is an expression of love and encouragement

Divine hope gives us the strength to stay alive. It encourages us to go on relentlessly without wanting to quit or give up

Think of a time when you were working hard enough to make a living but all factors seemed to be against you yet it was hope that kept you going. Think of a time when you thought that the love between you and your spouse or

you and your children was over it was hope that gave you the strength to shower your spouse and children with unconditional love consistently.

Imagine a soldier risking his life for his nation. It is hope that gives him strength to protect his nation. hope cannot stop the war heal the soldier or rescue him but hope can give him the strength to make it to where he can be rescued.

I have met so many people who are waiting to reunite with loved one like a spouse, children, siblings friends. A voice within them gives them the hope that one day they will be reunited with their loved one.

Whenever things have been difficult for me and my family I chant “DIVINE HOPE” and that gives me the strength and encouragement.

I remember a mother who was very stressed and worried about her relationship with her estranged daughter. she worried whether she would be united with her daughter in future and share happy moments with her the way the two of them did in the past.

During healing therapy My intuition kept on telling me to give hope to this mother along with healing that one day things would be fine between her and her daughter. The mother kept the hope burning within her that one day she and her daughter would reconnect.

Intuition of hope kept her going throughout the difficult period and I helped her by giving her encouragement and support. This mother was eventually successful in igniting the love between her and her daughter. The importance of hope should never be underestimated. With hope in our hearts we can do so much to attract so much good into our lives. achieve so much.

I know a family whose second child was born with physical weakness. The child could not walk or talk. The doctors had told the parents that there was a very slim chance that their child would walk or talk. I saw the child when he was a year and a half. As the mother seek Therapy and again my intuition guided me to convey to her that she should keep her hope alive no matter what the doctors said. All therapies works miracles with Hope in the heart.

The reports were not indicating that the child was improving. Then they met a doctor who advised a C T Scan. The C T Scan revealed that one of the nerves in the child’s foot was under pressure. A small surgery was performed to release the nerve and the child was soon walking initially with support and later without any support. The parents had kept the light of hope burning for their child. They helped support and later without any support. the parents had kept the light of hope burning for their child. they helped him to walk and are now hoping he will learn to talk properly also.

We are all given the seed of hope at the time we are born. these seeds are invisible they sleep in the secrecy of the mind until one of them decides to wake up. Remember that no circumstance no challenge can crush you. You can be shaken but not stirred by setback. Your gift of hope is strong unwavering and responsive. When life feels challenging remind yourself of how far you have come. You can do it again.

AFFIRM

MY DIVINE GIFT OF HOPE IS UNBREAKABLE

NO CHALLENGE CAN MATCH IT

The butterfly is a beautiful example of hope. First it is a caterpillar next it is a cocoon preparing for new growth. Finally as it emerges as a butterfly. You too can emerge from darkness and fly free to be all that you can be

I get the hope message many times.

I recollect a time where I had been to a picnic with an organisation. Since the organisation was very big there were many people whom I did not know personally. We all played many games .

In one game I was supposed to be a tree. A lady was supposed to come and hug the tree. The moment she hugged me my intuition told me this lady a lot of hope.

I had no idea for what she would need the hope. Later when I met her again in the lady’s room she spoke to me. She had been married for six years and was trying very hard to be a mother but had not succeeded so far.

She and her husband had been to the best gynaecologists and doctors in town and by the time I met this lady she and her husband had lost all hope of getting a child. They had no hope that a miracle would happen.

My intuition told me that there was hope for them so I told the lady that I felt very strongly that there was every possibility of her becoming a mother. The couple had tried so many different things to get a child that the mother was very negative about trying anything else. I prayed for her well being.

Later the couple shifted to Delhi & I did not hear anything about them. Accidently a year & a half later I met the husband on Facebook. We started chatting. I asked the husband about his wife and family. He conveyed to me that they had been blessed with a baby boy. He told me that Delhi had been lucky for them. I smiled to myself and thanked God for hearing my prayers.

Hope brings people together to make things better and when this happens I see people get brighter & shine more. People with hope can go on to achieve greater things. People who believe things can be changed for the better are beacons of light and these people should be supported by all around.

Hope can be given to others. It gives strength and courage and as it gives strength and courage hope grows. We all have a part to play in growing hope.

My intuition at different times has told me so much about hope and how much we have to be hopeful about and life has shown me so many different ways in which intuition helps us to give us hope.

Everything I share with you in this book is from my intuition. This book is a message of hope that has been given to me to share with each & every one of you to help you develop your intuition to help you expand the light of hope within you under all circumstances.

Give everyone you meet the gift of Hope & thus Joy Peace & Encouragement

Prayer Of Hope

Dear God Father Mother Creator of all I want to thank you for your message of Hope Grace Love Compassion Strength . Thank you for always being in my life.

Thank you for all that you have blessed me with in this life!

Thank you for helping me find Hope within all situations and circumstances to create Infinite Possibilities

I love you with all that I am!

I love you God! Amen

Divine hope gives us the strength to stay alive.

🌺💕☘️💕🌺

Spiritual Surrender

In the teachings of Paramhansa Yogananda, spiritual surrender means self-offering of one’s will to God.

It is not passive. It is an active surrender to the will of God.

How does one do it?

Swami Kriyananda said that only by mental attunement with the consciousness of an already liberated guru can we make the leap across the yawning abyss that separates the ego from infinity.

Most important of all is an attitude of deep loving receptivity toward one’s God-ordained guru.

The magnetism emanated by a true master lifts his disciples above their egos.

What the guru does for us is primarily on a level of consciousness.

He works from within us, on our thoughts and feelings.

Our job, above all, is to offer our hearts and minds up to him, that he may transform us.

Gradually, his ego-less consciousness seeps into our ego-centered consciousness, and transforms us with new understanding of our own reality.

Once ego-limitation has been demolished by selfless love, nothing remains to prevent self-awareness from expanding to infinity.

The storm of duality is finally stilled, and the self, no longer in rebellion against God, merges completely into the Infinite Self, becoming the Infinite.

This, and this only, is the state of salvation, of final liberation from all bondage of delusion.

Divine Surrender

Ask and Answered

When it comes to persistence, few things compare to a child nagging and negotiating to try and get what he wants. And few people know that better than a parent who has given that child an answer they don’t want to hear.

From the famed “Are we there yet?” to this morning’s “Can I have ice cream for breakfast?” to this afternoon’s “Can I have ice cream for dinner?” kids are notorious for their one-track minds, and they will ask…and ask…and ask…just in case you’ve changed your mind in the last minute.

Child nagging is a learned behavior that children of any age can pick up. They might continue to use it because once, in a moment of weakness, you caved and let them stay up an extra half hour after they asked for the eighth time.

But like any learned behavior, child nagging can be unlearned. The solution comes from Lynn Lott, co-author of the Positive Discipline series of books, and it works on kids as young as two or three, all the way through their teens.

It only takes three simple words: “Asked and Answered.”

The concept is simple. When seven-year-old Daniel begs to dig a giant hole in the front yard and gets “no” for an answer, chances are he’ll be back in five minutes asking again – this time with a “pleeeeeeaase” just so you know he really, really wants to dig the hole.

Instead of repeating yourself or jumping in to a lecture, avoid child nagging by getting eye to eye and follow the process below:

Step One: Ask, “Have you ever heard of ‘Asked and Answered’?” (He’ll probably say no.)

Step Two: Ask, “Did you ask me a question about digging a hole?” (He’ll say yes.)

Step Three: Ask, “Did I answer it?” (He’ll probably say, “Yes, but, I really ….”)

Step Four: Ask, “Do I look like the kind of mom/dad/teacher who will change her/his mind if you ask me the same thing over and over?” (Chances are Daniel will walk away, maybe with a frustrated grunt, and engage in something else.)

Step Five: If Daniel asks again, simply say, “Asked and Answered.” (No other words are necessary!) Once this technique has been established, these are the only words you should need to say to address nagging questions.

Consistency is key! Once you decide to use “Asked and Answered” with your nagging child, be sure to stick to it. If 14-year-old Emma is particularly determined to keep asking to get her eyebrow pierced, stay strong.

Answering her question again – or worse yet, changing your answer – will reinforce to her that her nagging works. Although it’ll take some patience, your child will eventually connect the dots and you’ll see results!

Make “Asked and Answered” a joint effort with your spouse, and consider including any family or friends who may have to deal with child nagging and negotiating from your child. When Daniel and Emma realize that they won’t get a “yes,” even after they’ve asked twelve times, they’ll get the hint and retire this tactic.

Speech and Language Pathologist, Stacy Pulley reports this technique works well for children with communication challenges, particularly those with Autism. She suggests bringing a notebook or a chalk/dry erase board into the mix and writing down a question once they’ve asked it more than once, keeping in mind their reading level. Or, draw a picture.

Then, when your child asks again, point to the board or notebook to remind them that they’ve asked, and you’ve answered. Be sure to use as few words as possible and stay consistent in your language to help them understand the connection as they learn to listen to and respect your answers.

Adding this tool to your parenting toolbox is a positive step toward ending the child nagging and negotiating that can wear on even the most resolute of parents.

Then, be sure to follow through and stay consistent – and before you know it, 20 questions will be a fun game once again, and no longer a negotiation tactic!

Divine Oneness

Today in my library I happened to open a book by James Twyman ~ The Proof.

It can’t be a coincidence, the page opened up was on Oneness. Same topic of the session Universe has your back.

Author says,

The embrace of Oneness moves you beyond Acceptance into a full and embodied experience of your emotions, sensations and interactions in each moment.

In the embrace of Oneness, you greet all things with open arms, ready and willing to be present with what is.

When your mind is open, receptive and non judgemental ~ no rejection, no preferences…you will start transforming.

Your Transformation involves going from resistance and regidness to deep Openness and Expansion, allowing the flow of life to move through you.

This is the freedom that the embrace of Oneness offers you.

It’s a state of being, a place of presence and the wholeness of life in each moment.

Affirm ~ I AM Lovingly embracing every experience of my Life, which flows in dynamic surrender and in perfect beauty.

Divine Oneness

🌺💕☘️💕🌺

A~ Z of Life

Avoid negative sources, people, places and habits.

Believe in yourself.

Consider things from every angle.

Don’t give up and don’t give in.

Everything you’re looking for lies behind the mask you wear.

Family and friends are hidden treasures, seek them and enjoy their riches.

Give more than you planned to.

Hang onto your dreams.

If opportunity doesn’t knock, build a door.

Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.

Keep trying no matter how hard it seems.

Love yourself.

Make it happen.

Never lie, steal or cheat.

Open your arms to change, but don’t let go of your values.

Practice makes perfect.

Quality not quantity in anything you do.

Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.

Stop procrastinating.

Take control of your own destiny.

Understand yourself in order to better understand others.

Visualize it.

When you lose, don’t lose the lesson.

Xcellence in all your efforts.

You are unique, nothing can replace you.

Zero in on your target, and go for it~~!!

Persistence

Today Try something you have previously given up.

Persistence is the key to success in everything we do in life. Far too many people waste precious time and energy trying to avoid difficult things in their lives, or even worse, give up at the first signs of any complication.

Little do they realize, however, that even the most complex of tasks become much simpler and much easier when we persist in trying them.

Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence.

Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful people with talent.

Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb.

Education will not; the world is filled with educated derelicts.

Perseverance and determination alone are omnipotent.