Unless you fill yourself up first, you have nothing to give anybody.
Therefore it is imperative that you tend to you first.
Attend to your joy first.
People are responsible for their own joy.
When you tend to your joy and do what makes you feel good, you are a joy to be around and you are a shining example to every child and every person in your life.
When you are feeling joy you don’t even have to think about giving.
It is a natural overflow.