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Divine Oneness

Today in my library I happened to open a book by James Twyman ~ The Proof.

It can’t be a coincidence, the page opened up was on Oneness. Same topic of the session Universe has your back.

Author says,

The embrace of Oneness moves you beyond Acceptance into a full and embodied experience of your emotions, sensations and interactions in each moment.

In the embrace of Oneness, you greet all things with open arms, ready and willing to be present with what is.

When your mind is open, receptive and non judgemental ~ no rejection, no preferences…you will start transforming.

Your Transformation involves going from resistance and regidness to deep Openness and Expansion, allowing the flow of life to move through you.

This is the freedom that the embrace of Oneness offers you.

It’s a state of being, a place of presence and the wholeness of life in each moment.

Affirm ~ I AM Lovingly embracing every experience of my Life, which flows in dynamic surrender and in perfect beauty.

Divine Oneness

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Anger

Anger :- A gift or a curse?? …. Read on….

I sat with my anger. I held its hand and thanked it. I breathed deeply. Looked at it. Acknowledged it and then asked, “Why are you here?”

“I am here”, anger replied, “because you let everyone violate you and take you for granted. You donot draw your boundaries.”

I sat there, frozen, in silence, absorbing this. Anger, which I thought was bad, which I was taught is the root cause of every evil, which I was conditioned to believe it has to be controlled, was actually playing a beautiful role in my life. It was a gift.

That made me think, “If I embraced this gift, the gift of drawing boundaries, what would happen?” “Will anger go away”?, I thought to myself.

I went on an inner pilgrimage. I went back in time and observed all incidents that had made me angry. The underlying aspect in all those situations was that I felt violated in some way. Not respected, not honored in some way. I allowed people to take away my power, I felt helpless. And there came anger to protect me. Because I could not protect or honor myself.

Anger was playing a wonderful role.

So, there I was sitting with “anger” again. “Tell me anger”, what should I do?”

Anger replied, “Draw boundaries, Re-claim your power and I WILL BE GONE”.

You may ask, “What happened next”? “Did you apply boundaries? Did anger go away?”

“No, Not Really”, I say. It is a PART of me. How can a part of ME go away? You see, every emotion is a part of us. We are, as Carl Jung, says, a 360 degree with various personality parts.

“Then what’s the point?”, you may ask.

“Well, Anger, right now stands away – may be as a gatekeeper, guarding, not controlling – just watching whether I let any unwelcome guests inside.

As long as I don’t, it keeps quiet. The moment I “Allow” someone to take my power away, whenever I am helpless or let anyone violate or manipluate me, whenever I ‘allow’ this, the Gatekeeper comes ALIVE.

Anger is a guardian. It’s an ally. I understand it’s gift. The more I apply and use this gift, the more it just stands at the threshold, ‘watching’.

The moment I don’t apply the gift, it walks right back in.

Every emotion is a gift. You just have to sit with it and ask, “Why are you here? What role are you playing?”

Can you do that with your anger? With your fear, insecurity, jealousy, resistance?

No No No ~ YES

🌹A No No No story🌹

Yesterday I was in a business training where the trainer asked us a following question

“If I give you 1cr rupees will you jump from the plane?”

Before I go further I would like you to answer this question.

*What would you reply?*

Most of the people in the room said *”No No No”* there where few of the other interesting answers but a NO was the maximum.

On this the trainer said “you all answered me before I could even inform you wether I’ll give you a parachute or not, or even if the plane is in the sky or on ground.”

This really made me go to all those places in my life where I just say NO NO NO without even considering it on a auto pilot.

Are you doing the same?

Where, when, what, why and how have you made a NO NO NO a auto pilot in your life?

Have you ever wondered how many NO’s are you using from the life you desire and from what you know is possible?

If you would choose to live your life with 🌹YES🌹

*YES* I can.

*YES* let’s do it.

*YES* I love you.

*YES* I am different.

*YES* I don’t like you.

*YES* I want money.

Won’t this crate more ease in your life?👍

✔️Are you willing to have a YES life?✔️

Tell me More

“Hi Bandana,

2 quick questions for you…

1) Are men really from Mars?

2) Are women from Venus?

I’m sure you’ve heard this reference many times before, and the implication is that we’re so different, men and women might as well be from different planets.

The reality is, we are equal in many respects – especially when it comes to our basic human needs like safety, love, belonging, and our desire to become the most we can be. But we are also different… after all, we are individuals with unique experiences.

This can be seen in how we each think, react, and communicate to the same circumstances.

For example, men tend to communicate through actions rather than words.

This behavior can be traced back to prehistoric times, when men did most of the hunting, providing, and solving challenges. In other words, they proved their worth by taking care of their family.

So when a woman tells a man about a problem, his immediate reaction is to fix it.

This approach can make women feel offended, insulted, or even angry–because women don’t necessarily want men to solve their problem.

Unless they specifically ask for that, what women really want is to be heard and understood. They want men to pay attention and connect with them emotionally.

However, men aren’t intentionally trying to be insulting or offensive. They’re just simply following their instinct and survival methods: “I see a problem, therefore I must help NOW.”

So women, if you find yourself getting irritated by men jumping in to solve a situation, problem or challenge, remember it’s not a statement about you or your abilities.

Men are simply acting on their knee-jerk desire to fix whatever they think is “broken.”

And men, I’d like to teach you 3 powerful words you can use every time a woman opens up to you about a challenge she’s experiencing. Instead of jumping into action, take a deep breath, and say these simple words…

“Tell me more.”

Then, let her know you listened by reflecting back and saying things like, “So what you’re saying is…” or “That must be really frustrating,” or “I can see why you’re upset.”

Now that you know about these differences, think about how you can use this knowledge to communicate more effectively with the opposite sex.

Remember this, Laila , women tend to show intimacy by sharing their feelings, while men tend to express their caring through their actions.”

– from a newsletter of Jack Canfield – Author of many books including Success Principles and How to get from where you are to where you want to be and Chicken soup for the Soul series 🙂

Anxiety Vs Patience

This is a Zibu Symbol which made me think about Anxiety.

Anxiety is “the rust of life;” after all, it feeds on us, corroding and destroying our faith and certainty and obscuring the beauty we perceive in life.

Unfortunately, anxiety is something that generally seems to plague us no matter how much we try to avoid it or prevent it.

Perhaps that is because it is so deeply rooted in our emotions–fear, uncertainty, apprehension, failure, and so on.

Or maybe it is a result of trying to manage it in unhealthy and ineffective ways.

Regardless, the best way to handle it–and thwart it–is through complete trust and faith in our Creator.

This requires complete surrender of our worries–it means evicting anxiety so that peace may come inside.

Our humanity creates a desire to want to be in control of our lives–to know that everything that occurs to us in life is a result of our actions, or inactions.

But it is impossible for us to control everything. In all honesty, it is difficult enough for us to control a few things, let alone the infinite possibilities that confront us, or have the potential to.

I have found that the people who are happiest in life are not necessarily those who are well off–the wealthy, the powerful, and the famous.

These individuals tend to be cynical and critical of life, often harboring unhappiness and encouraging those around them not to trust life either.

In contrast, the truly happiest individuals tend to be those who trust life–those who go about living open, caring, and compassionate lives.

Trusting in God’s Providence truly is the best preventative and remedy to the rust that feeds on the beauty of life.

Let go of your anxieties, your worries, and your cares… place them into the arms of your Creator who made you and watches over you with unconditional love and unfathomable passion.

You will find your worries becoming all the less, until one day, they simply are no more. and certainty and obscuring the beauty we perceive in life.

Unfortunately, anxiety is something that generally seems to plague us no matter how much we try to avoid it or prevent it.

Perhaps that is because it is so deeply rooted in our emotions–fear, uncertainty, apprehension, failure, and so on.

Or maybe it is a result of trying to manage it in unhealthy and ineffective ways.

Regardless, the best way to handle it–and thwart it–is through complete trust and faith in our Creator.

This requires complete surrender of our worries–it means evicting anxiety so that peace may come inside.

Our humanity creates a desire to want to be in control of our lives–to know that everything that occurs to us in life is a result of our actions, or inactions.

But it is impossible for us to control everything. In all honesty, it is difficult enough for us to control a few things, let alone the infinite possibilities that confront us, or have the potential to.

I have found that the people who are happiest in life are not necessarily those who are well off–the wealthy, the powerful, and the famous.

These individuals tend to be cynical and critical of life, often harboring unhappiness and encouraging those around them not to trust life either.

In contrast, the truly happiest individuals tend to be those who trust life–those who go about living open, caring, and compassionate lives.

Trusting in God’s Providence truly is the best preventative and remedy to the rust that feeds on the beauty of life.

Let go of your anxieties, your worries, and your cares… place them into the arms of your Creator who made you and watches over you with unconditional love and unfathomable passion.

You will find your worries becoming all the less, until one day, they simply are no more.

Divine Patience

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Religion Vs Spirituality

One Of My Friend Asked Me

The Difference Between Religion And Spirituality…

So I Thought To Share This Beautifull True Experince With You All..!! And My Dear Friend Here Is Your Answers.!

?RELIGION and SPIRITUALITY?

~Religion is for those who want to continue rituals and the formality.

Spirituality is for those who want to reach the Spiritual Ascent.

~Religion is for those who are asleep

Spirituality is for those who are awake.

~Religion is for those that require guidance from others.

Spirituality is for those that lend ears to their inner voice.

~Religion has unquestionable assembly of rules that

need to be followed without question.

Spirituality invites you to reason it all, to question it all and to decide your actions and assume the consequences.

~Religion speaks of sin and of fault

Spirituality encourages “living in the present” and not to feel remorse for which has already passed – Lift your spirit and learn from errors.

~Religion is instilled from childhood, like the soup you do not you want to take.

Spirituality is the food that you you seek, that satisfies you and is pleasant to the senses.

~Religion is not God

Spirituality is infinite consciousness and all that is – It is God.

~Religion invents.

Spirituality discovers.

~Religion does not investigate and does not question.

Spirituality questions everything.

~Religion is based on humanity, an organization with rules.

Spirituality is DIVINE, WITHOUT rules.

~Religion continues the teachings of a sacred book.

Spirituality seeks the sacredness in all the books.

~Religion lives you in your thoughts.

Spirituality lives in your conscience.

~Religion is in charge of the “to do”.

Spirituality is in charge of the “to BE”.!!!

I am proud to say I AM A SPIRITUAL BEING

Divine Spirituality

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Resistance

Resistance

The human DNA holds many things. Including patterns and belief systems and conditioning of centuries. It has become so ingrained in you; that it is reflected in your way of thinking, feeling and living your life. One of the patterns that is crippling humans is Resistance.

What is Resistance? It is a block. A nonacceptance. It is shutting the door on the face of someone or something. It is an emotion of pushing away what is coming to you. It is moving against the flow.

Though it may seem that one resists the negative aspects of Life like pain or problems; we find the contrary to be true. You believe life is a continuous struggle. You accept pain and hardships for you have been programmed by society that Life is hard. Challenges are more acceptable than Achievements. In this energy of Resistance, you resist health, happiness, joy, wholeness and even greatness.

One of the primary reasons you don’t heal is that you resist healing. Certain belief systems and patterns are behind this. You think the health issues you face are normal. You don’t believe in the wholeness, the perfection of the human body. Imperfection is more acceptable.

You become so attached to your health issues that you don’t want to let them go. At the subconscious level you hold onto them because they are the source of the care and attention in your life and you don’t want to lose that. So you hold onto your disease and don’t want to let go.

Similar is your attitude to happiness, joy in your life. You don’t let go of your pain because it has been with you so long that you are used to it. It is familiar. You don’t believe that happiness, joy can last . Moreover you don’t believe you deserve it. So you push away abundance; be it in the form of Money, Relationships or Success.

Another big area of Resistance is in the area of Spiritual growth. You resist sitting in meditation, resist talking to the Masters, resist being called Spiritual for somewhere deep in your soul is the fear; that Spirituality means losing your favourite things of life, things that really matter to you. That is why inspite of the deep calling in your heart you take so long to start living a Spiritual life.

Resistance makes life harder for it is moving against the flow. It is resisting what is meant to be yours. Be it a Lesson or a Love.

Archangel Jophiel through Satarupa

Bitterness ?

Today someone asked a question….what if close family tries to stop us from reaching out True Potential…..

And the question arose so many questions in my mind on how to answer this query in the best possible way….and here what you ask you receive….

Sharing this wonderful Insight which is slightly Long but worth a read and we can also discuss it for more clarification…

Bitter feelings allow us to become perfect victims, in that we no longer feel obliged to work toward healing.

It is natural to feel resentment or anger when life does not unfold as expected.

We consciously or unconsciously anticipated one experience, and we grieve for the loss of it when the universe puts something else in our path.

Most of the time, we work through these feelings and they pass.

Occasionally, our anger and resentment do not fade and are instead transformed into bitterness.

Bitter feelings allow us to become perfect victims in that we no longer feel obliged to work toward healing and choose instead to identify with our pain.

Yet as unwholesome as bitterness can be, it is also a natural element of our emotional palette.

When we acknowledge that it is okay to feel bitter, we reconnect with our hurt in a constructive way and can begin the process of working through it.

The nature of bitterness is rooted in the fact that the pain we feel provides us with a rationale.

We may feel that we deserve to embrace our bitterness to its full extent.

And to be bitter is, in essence, to cut ourselves off from all that is positive, hardening our hearts and vowing never to let go of our hurt.

But just as bitter feelings can be self-defeating, so too can the release of bitterness be life-affirming in a way that few other emotional experiences are.

When we decide that we no longer want to be bitter, we are reborn into a world filled with delight and fulfillment unlike any we knew while in the clutches of bitterness.

The veil it cast over our lives is lifted, letting light and warmth touch our souls.

Divesting yourself of bitter feelings can be as simple as truly forgiving and moving on.

Even when your bitterness has no concrete object, you can forgive situations too.

Healing pain can be challenging but may be easier if you remind yourself that you are the only entity truly affected by your emotional state.

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n time, you will discover that letting go of your bitterness frees you to initiate the healing process and allows you to once again celebrate the possibility of the more wonderful life you deserve.

Divine Expansion

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Beautiful Prayer….

Dear God-
Please bless my path with light and allow me to be a blessing to others. 

Sometimes it seems like there is so much hardship in the world, I wonder how my life can make a difference. 

I forget sometimes that every life matters… including mine.

Please help me release my worries to you and help me remember that my challenges are not bigger than the power of Divine co-creation.

Help me to see beauty in the world and see the sweet promise of potential in everyone I meet.

Please help me awaken more fully into Your dream of me so that I may fulfill the promise of my gifts in service to the greater good.
Thank you, God, for the gift of my life. 

I am so grateful for the goodness you seed into the world.
Divine Life 

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